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Ask Sh'Naynay

Date Posted: 1998-12-11

Hey, this is Sh'naynay coming to you with the real 'down to earth' advice. You got a question, I got the answer. I'll give you the proper hook up. Remember, there's a right and wrong way to ask. So, what's up, tell something good!


Look, how can I put this? O.k. my neighbor has a dog and it barks every night. I'm a real cool person but I do work. Should I report the disturbances. I'm sure I'm not the only one bothered by it.

Sleepless


Sh'naynay

Well, sleepless, maybe you should talk to the neighbors about it. Maybe they don't know how the other neighbors feel about their dog. The first thing you should do is talk to them. Suggest some type of muzzle for the animal so it doesn't disturb the neighborhood. If they refuse any type of compromise then I'd report it.


Hey, my boyfriends wants to break up with me because I hang with my male friends in our barracks. He's a dependant and doesn't like the barrack life that I have. How do I make him feel better about my way of life?

Confused


Sh'naynay

Confused, have him joined the services and he'll know. If he doesn't like your friends then he probably won't or don't like your job. Sounds like he has a problem with the opposite sex friendships. Tell him to grow up and love you for who you are, not who you are friends with.

I lucked up on two tickets to the boys to men concert. I love my boyfriend but I wanted to go with my best girlfriend. Now he is mad at me. He claims I choose everyone over him. I didn't buy the tickets. Someone couldn't go so they gave them to me. How am I in the wrong?

Rightfully Speaking


Sh'naynay

Rightfully Speaking, this sounds like a jealousy issue. If your boyfriend really wanted to take you he would have bought the tickets to do so. Don't let him make you feel bad about not wanting to go with him. It's called a guilt trip, get over it or get rid of him. Next!

For the advice seekers, email: shnaynay@japanupdate.com

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